I thought I like’d it. But I don’t wear it.

How do we distinguish clothes we need to learn to work with from clothes that were never really “us” to begin with?

This might be the central issue with managing possessions under consumerism.
Is this me? Is this not me? Is there something out there that is more me? Should I get rid of this, and get that instead?

What if I don’t know what it is that I wan’t, I just know this isn’t it. When I say “it’s just not me,” what does that even mean?